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A Senior’s Struggle to Survive

What I Wish I Had Known About College Before I Was a Senior

By Raegan Perry

MISENHEIMER, NC- Being a senior at Gray Stone is not all it is cracked up to be. No, I am not counting down the days until graduation. Instead, I am counting down the days until my next college application or scholarship is due. No, I am not out with friends every weekend. Instead, I am at home working on homework for some of the most difficult classes that I have ever taken at Gray Stone Day. And no, I never thought that everything would happen so fast. I found out that I was wrong.

This article is mainly for juniors who are looking at college options. Picking a college is such a major part of your life and it can have lasting impacts. With so many colleges available, I did not know where or when to begin. So here is what I think that every junior should be doing RIGHT NOW: 

  1. Decide how far from home you are willing to go. Personally, I did not want to leave North Carolina, because NC has so many excellent schools and because I could not see myself too far from my family.
  2. Decide if you want a big university or a small one. Being at Gray Stone for four years now, I thought that I would really like to try a big school because I felt that I had been at a small school for so long. That was until I actually visited a small school and found that I loved the closeness and the fact that I would not be anonymous there. It’s a matter of personal preference.
  3. Talk to Gray Stone’s counselors about college. I know that every student meets with the counselors several times. When I first met with the Guidance Counselor, we talked about where I could possibly go and how realistic I was in my choices. They are a big help in getting you started and I wish that I would have asked more questions. One of the best advices that they gave me was to pick about ten schools that I am interested in. From there, narrow it down to five and then decide on the ones that you will apply to. I am applying to three colleges (possible four). One of them is my dream school. One of them is a respectable school that I know I will do well in. And one of them is a school where I know I will be accepted.
  4. BEGIN LOOKING NOW! As a junior in the last quarter of school, I visited a university for the first time and I was completely blown away at how different a college was. I was able to meet with professors, students and admissions directors who answered many questions that my family and I had for them. You never know if the school you want to go to is right for you unless you actually visit. Personally, the first time I stepped foot on my #1 college choice, I knew that I would not be completely happy unless I attended that school in the fall of 2008. When you visit a college campus, they give you so much information and you really get a sense of what the school offers and why you should or should not attend that school. Juniors and sophomores: sign up to visit these schools NOW so that when you are a senior, you can spend your time perfecting your college apps and applying for scholarships.
  5. Become acquainted with www.CFNC.com and start looking for scholarship opportunities.  I am sure that you have seen the commercials about the frustrated high school senior who is working tirelessly on college applications but discovers liberation when they are introduced to the College Foundation of North Carolina website, which helps students who are applying to more than one in-state school. The website has so many resources that are a huge asset to the application process. Explore all of these resources now so that you already know about financial aid, test preparation, student loans, campus tours, scholarships and even high school planning. CFNC is a major help to countless students applying to schools in North Carolina.
  6. Keep track of all your accomplishments and achievements throughout your high school career. Not only will colleges ask you for honors, extra circular activities, achievements, awards and service activities but when you apply for scholarships or ask teachers for recommendations, they will also require all of that information. What I did was make a resume listing everything that I had been involved in since my freshman year. Make sure that dates and activities are accurate and precise.

Begin the college-searching process now so that you will be on top of things when you are a senior. This has been the most demanding, exasperating and exciting time of my schooling. I am so busy and stressed because of all that I have to do. Many applications require a lot of information and I am struggling to balance these apps with my school work, extra circular activities and family life. My hope is that Gray Stone juniors will be much more prepared for the college process than I was.